Can I have a private post please.
So today I told my ex of a year (my child’s father) that I’ve met someone new. I’ve been seeing him for 4 months but hadn’t introduced him to my child as I wanted to tell my child’s dad first… just out of respect. Well it went tits up to say the least. He was shouting in my house in front of our son who doesn’t see that kind of thing, calling me a slag and saying I should put our son first instead of being to interested in getting laid. Here’s the funny part, he has never provided a nappy for his son not even a present for Xmas last year. He has him 2/3 times a week depending on how he feels, I send the nappies wipes and even FOOD, because he says he never has enough money to buy extra food. I give him money when he has our son so that he can get fresh milk bread or whatever it is he needs and he has the absolute cheek to say I should put my son first before getting laid! I am seriously fuming, am I going crazy in thinking he has no right to say these things? Considering the situation! Advice is needed to go about things the right way and make him see that he can’t speak to me like that. Surely he understands everyone moves on in life? Really needed to get that off my chest!