Can I have an anon post please. Me and my other half have been together nearly…

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Can I have an anon post please.

Me and my other half have been together nearly 5 years. We have a 2 year old and he has a child from a previous relationship.

I feel as I’m falling out of love with him! Fast. I don’t know what to do. I can’t help it. It’s like I love him cuz he’s the father of my child but I have no sexual feelings anymore.
The relationship is dead. I’m just finding myself resenting him every day.
Basically he doesn’t help around the house. We both get home from work at the same time, he slobs on the sofa sat around mess whilst I’m cooking, cleaning and ironing his work clothes for the next day. I’m sick of having to nag him to move his pots which turns into an argument. He’ll have some cereal and some crisp and just leave the rubbish and bowl on the floor and the side of the sofa for me to clean away. He’s 35 and so immature, he winds our daughter up which results in her crying. He’s like a big kid. He’s so laid back, everything he does stresses me out. I feel like a slave. Then he has the cheek to call me a miserable cow because I’m down about the hole situation. Whenever I try and talk to him he says that he pays for everything so I should do all the house work. Last week I was cooking a roast dinner and I’ve got my daughter stood at my feet crying to be picked up whilst I’m in front of hot pans, he’s lied on the sofa watching telly or asleep. I gutted all the bedroom at the weekend, an hour later his dirty clothes are all over the bedroom floor. He opens the wardrobe and pulls everything out and leaves the clothes on the floor. I ask him to wash the pots or put our daughter to bed and he’s like “I put her to bed the other night. Or I’ve just drove us home from work or I’ve been working all day” (Like I havent) I work Monday to Friday, we virtually do the same hours.
Honestly girls I’m at my wits end. My family live in London, I have no family around me, just him. When his son comes it’s even worse cuz I’ve got 2 children to sort out cuz he does jack shit. He acts like his childrens friend instead of a dad. He winds them both up, then ive got his son shouting and telling his dad to shutup infront of my daughter, im stressed. He constantly patronizes me, I’m 8 years younger than him. He makes out like I’m stupid and I’m always in a bad mood. Questions my parenting all the time. Whenever I’m worried about something he doesn’t take me seriously, says I’m being silly. He’s always eyeing up other women when we are out n about, makes me feel so small. He’s typed into his Facebook search bar “fit chicks”
Like I don’t care, whatever … but why? I only know this cuz he asked me to look for someone on his Facebook and he denied it when I showed him. said he didn’t and doesn’t understand why that’s on his search history?

Sorry for the long post girls I’m just having a hard time with him, I don’t know what to do. If we split up then I’ll have to go back to London which means he’ll only see his daughter once in a blue moon and I couldn’t do that to him or her.
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