Can you post anonymously please. Rant alert apologies Long story, as of lat…

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Can you post anonymously please.

Rant alert
apologies

Long story, as of late my life seems to be completely out of control. I’m a disabled full time working Wife and Mum. I love my family and I love my job. Me and my husband have both been caring for my dad recently who’s been not so well lately. I’m getting up to 22 calls off him a day up to 11:30pm at night and sometimes beyond and this does not include calls in the middle of the night off of his emergency care call line. They strongly suspect he’s placing himself on the floor and activating the emergency line, he then asks them to call me and doesn’t care if it’s the middle of the bloody night.
He’s calls demanding that my husband or myself go over usually at our daughters bedtime, he calls and wants us to go over with bread or milk and we are unable to he activates his care call, he then asks that they call me, 2am 3am anything goes. I’m off of work with stress, everything is so bloody difficult, I’m running 2 houses his and ours. We’ve had some behavioural issues (bedtime, School run, eating habits) with our little girl she is 7 years old.l and I’ve spoken to the School right away and they have put into place a family support worker to help us with the getting up and going to bed routine at our request. I’m so incredibly tired.
Anyway, recently the support-worker contacted me to tell me there has been an anonymous call to the first response team at social services.
About out of date food in our fridge and that the kitchen was untidy and that I was starving my child.
I found out that this was my little half sister, she’s also admitted it to me , It was obviously her, I’d just cooked bloody dinner for her in that kitchen on that day, so yes there were dirty dishes. As for the out of date food, it was still frozen as I’d removed it from the freezer. Social services spoke to my case worker who obviously knew this whole thing was ludicrous. I’m just so bloody hurt, she knows how down I’ve been, I’ve sobbed with my head in my hands with worry about these issue to her and rather than offer me support she goes and does this!! She doesn’t speak to the rest of the family, she made similar allegations before.
I was the only one she did speak to, they all tried to warn me that she would do something like this but I figured she deserved a chance. Stupid cow that I am. She doesn’t have kids and our daughter loves her, I feel I can never trust her again and I can’t tell our little girl what she’s done so I’ve told her mummy is mad with auntie ***** so now she’s upset with me, what doI tell her and how do I stop myself from screaming at her and telling her what a vicious little bitch she has been.
She knew everything, every thought, every feeling of how I’ve been lately. Why would she do this, why? Part of me could understand if she was perhaps trying to help me in some warped way but she’s also said that I let her sleep at my Mum and her husbands house every weekend and that there is domestic violence there (there isn’t and she NEVER stays anywhere but Home) in fact up until brownie camp this weekend it’s actually been 5 years since she slept anywhere without one of us present. So that’s my rant, I know there are no right and wrong answers to this dilemma but I wondered what other people thought. My other family members have been amazing and social services aren’t even sending anyone here as our family support worker has told them that everything absolutely fine, but that doesn’t stop me feeling utterly betrayed. I picked her up from London when she moved back to this area, she lived with us for 2 months, I got her her flat, her furniture, I’ve been with her and there for her at every step of her problems.
She had the police called to her last row with her fella and they brought her here and she stayed here (this was a month ago. Why now? I just don’t understand her at all.
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