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Could i have a pp pleasee? No bashing or mean comments please My oh always pla…

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Could i have a pp pleasee?

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My oh always plays with our 1 month old. During this he always ends up shaking his head quite abit. Small and fast, or big and slow. Purposely too. But i always tell him to stop shaking him, to br careful of his head, but i get shouted at and told that he wouldn’t do anything that would hurt him. Am i just over thinking it all? Should i stop saying it? Thanks x
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  • I hope this is a joke, who the f would shake a baby at all, especially their head! Their skull isn’t developed properly and their brains are very vulnerable. It might sound harsh but if this was me he wouldn’t be around my baby if I had seen him doing that

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  • Its not good to shake babies their cranium is still soft and the can cause their little brain to swell and bleed inside please don’t allow him to do this to the baby look up some info on this and show it to him I’m not trying to scare u and I know ppl should not Google every thing but I was told by my daughter pediatrician not to do so because it can cause brain damage to the baby

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  • Maybe get a professional to tell him if he won’t listen to you. While he thinks it’s ok and he wouldn’t intentionally hurt your child, it doesn’t take much to cause damage to them hence why you’re supposed to support their neck until they’re strong enough to do it themselves.

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  • It seems to me that he isn’t purposely trying to harm the baby and he is just playing but the baby is way too young to be paying like that just talk to him explain how your not saying he is purposely hurting baby and show him some things online that day why not to and what can happen I don’t think he’s doing it purposely xxx

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  • No don’t stop telling him take the baby away when he does it tell him it can cause brain damage… you know he doesn’t mean to hurt him but it only takes one bad movement of the skull….

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  • This could be really serious even if not intentional so no you shouldn’t stop telling him to stop I would go mad at my partner for doing so

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  • Id kill my oh if he ever did this ur baby is 1month old hasnt he got a brain cell sorry but doesnt he know tht shaking a baby can be very harmful xxx

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  • Definitely should not be shaking a one month old baby. Your not over thinking at all and he definitely should stop it. It’s very dangerous to do so can easily cause brain damage or worse. I’d be going crazy x

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  • Why would he shake a baby ??? I mean seriously isn’t he aware of what a knobhead he’s being ?

    If he’s shaking baby intentionally knowing he could potentially kill or seriously harm your baby get your baby far away from him ! For baby’s sake

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  • He shouldn’t be shaking him. Not sure how hard he’s doing it exactly, but it’s not good and he needs to listen to you and not do it again.

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  • Tell him to educate himself alls hes gotta do is go on google then give him the bird and a big fat told you so. Pfft ignorant prat him

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  • No you shouldn’t stop saying it… doesn’t he know how serious this could be?

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  • What do you mean shaking his head? Is he playing and it’s making babies head shake? If so, continue to tell him to stop and also show him some research on what it can do. The’ sounds like he’s trying to kill your baby’ comment is seriously not needed!

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