Could I have a ppp Am I over reacting here? I’m with my partner who I have be…

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Could I have a ppp

Am I over reacting here?

I’m with my partner who I have been with 3years and he took my daughter on as his own (he also has 3 children from previous). His brother and brothers partners don’t bother at all with my daughter I feel. Now we have a 9mo together too.
When my partner has his kids they will phone and wanna talk to them etc and will completely blank my daughter.
I have seen messages off 1 brother asking how his other 3 kids are (by name) and also my son. No where on the texts does it ask how my daughter is. Now my partner doesn’t correct him which is really upsetting as he says he has taken her on as his. But why not correct them and say what about ‘So and so’ too.
Also his other brother has said to me that I take too much care of my children yet when my partners children come I don’t. They get new clothes toys etc for at ours but I can only do so much as they still have their mother in their life and my children ate my children so obviously I’m gonna spoil them and dress then nice etc. It’s not my fault the kids mom doesn’t take pride in her children. It all kicked off as I made a big effort with my daughter 8th birthday an she for a new bday dress for party and apparently I’m bad because I didn’t get my partners daughter one! I’m sorry but 1 it’s my daughter’s party so I can buy a dress if I like! And 2nd my son didn’t get a new outfit just cause was my daughter’s party. So why should the others? If it was my son, he would get new outfit but my daughter wouldn’t as it’s about him that day.
We are meant be getting married 2019 and I feel that they wrap my partners kids in cotton wool and like they ate royalty and should be treated special which I have said is wrong as my kids don’t get special treatment!
Anyone other step parent been through this? And what should I do?

Sorry long post! Tia x
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