Could I have a ppp as people I know are in this group. My current partner has b…
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Could I have a ppp as people I know are in this group.
My current partner has been offered a job in another country and wants to take it problem is I have a son from a previous relationship. My son sees his dad once a week for a few hours and has done since he was born, baby’s father isn’t on bc due to the situation before son was born. my current partners job offer would mean a better life for me and my son even though it would mean moving country, I’d come back every year for a few months to see family son baby’s dad could see him then? We’re so unsure now as it’d mean a better life but he wouldn’t see his dad every weekend
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Could you reply to my post please, I had trouble in the beginning trying to get him to see our son and in the end he did it as his mum told him to, he wasn’t there for any of the pregnancy and told me he wanted nothing to do with our son, he sees him 4 hours every weekend but only because his mum picks our son up and drops him off. He gives me nothing towards our son and never asks about him. It’s like pulling teeth trying to get a response out of him about if he’s seeing his son that weekend or not. I’ve also already mentioned moving before to him and he always brushes it off
I think this is a conversation you need to have with your kids dad. I wouldn’t be happy if my ex took my son to live In another country and said I could only see him a few times a year. You need to be honest with your ex about what your plans are.
If there is a better life for your son then why not. But tbh if he’s only seeing him a few hours a week shouldn’t see a problem. Maybe there would be a problem if he was having him all over the weekend but he’s not. If it was to give my son a better life then I wouldn’t hesitate Hun. If he was more involved in his life then I would say talk to him but do what you think is best for your son because at the end of the day he’s the main priority xx
U need to talk to his dad and see how he feels about it … put the shoe on the other foot , u go abroad leave your son with dad and you see him a few times a month?? Totally ok with that?? Nope. .. so don’t expect it to be a case of just saying it to the father
You need to talk to the dad, if it’s a better life for the child he maybe ok with it. Is it possible he could come over to visit too? If I was offered a chance to move abroad I’d be off like a shot, but I’m not in the position of leaving my daughters dad behind so it’s a difficult situation. The only way to solve it is talking to him. Good luck
You need to think how you would feel if roles was reversed .. how will it effect your son of he sees his dad every weekend ?? .. personally myself i couldn’t do it but that’s my personal opinion … you need to talk to his dad x
You need to speak to your baby’s dad and explain it to him he may be OK with it knowing it’s going to be a better life for his child good luck. Xx
I definitely think talk to the dad. I have a 12 year old daughter from a previous relationship and my husband and I have a 6 hear old daughter and 6 month old son. we’d love to go abroad and stay but I can’t take my daughter away from her dad. it’s your own personal situation though and I’m sure you’ll know what is best in the end. good luck xx
I don’t think its just your decision to make tbh, the right thing to do would be to ask your child’s father