Could I have a PPP me and my ex partner have a court order for his contact bei…
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Could I have a PPP
me and my ex partner have a court order for his contact being once over night a week. I fought against contact being so regular as he’s very unreliable. He differed on that option and was granted once a week, twice in holidays and 3 nights in summer holidays. In the past 15 weeks and he’s had our son only 7 times in that time. He’s had numerous bugs, a blocked toilet, deliveries coming etc these are the excuses I’m being given. I’d really just like some advice on what I can do about this it’s unfair to our little boy. He was due to go today and been let down again. Dad’s not easy to talk to as it is. Thanks in advance x
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Please could you add to my post that is i was to let it go back to court this would be the 3rd time in court as I’ve stopped contact in the past for same reasons. I’ve lost hope as everything seems to go his way and he talks his way out of it every time. Judge seems to defend fathers they shouldnt. Our sons 4 and have been told that his wishes and feelings are not considered due to age. What would happen? Reduced contact? Or would it just cause more up roar between me and ex partner if he’s granted the same? 😔
Don’t stop contact, but don’t tell your son his dad is coming for him until an hour before hand, then he was none the wiser to be disappointed. If you stop contact you are also in breach if the court order and could be negativly impacted further x
if you have arranged for him to see your son I would advise not telling your little one until a few hour before, if you are sure he will turn up. Then it leaves little room for disappointment in your sons eyes. It is very frustrating for you because you are unable to plan, I know, I have been there, but I found that was the best way to shelter my children from disappointment.
in the meantime as others have advised mark down when he was supposed to see him and why he didn’t come if this is the case. Some of these excuses are very lame and there is no reason why your son can’t be in his presence at the time of them happening – deliveries?!?!
Good luck xxxx
Make a note of all the times he’s let him down with his excuses etc and seek legal advice to take it back through court as he’s in breach of court order, don’t stop contact yourself until you’ve seen a solicitor as that also puts you in breach which could work against you, I know its hard watching your little one get upset etc but just bear with it and do it all properly x
If it was me I wouldn’t let him see his child and take him back to court, I only give 3 chances and if they blew it then that would be it 😑
It’s a beach of court order you need to see a solicitor again and take it back to court x
Keep all evidence of his excuses. Stop contact.. contact solicitor but wait for him to take it back to court as will cost him not you.
Sounds exactly like my ex husband. Excuse after excuse and never bothered to turn up to court. They don’t think of how the children are hurt. They just think of themselves. Stop contact and go to court again . X