Could I have a private post? Thanks. My partner was upstairs with his phone and …
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Could I have a private post? Thanks. My partner was upstairs with his phone and left the tablet downstairs logged in to Facebook messenger, I could hear it pinging and he has messaged a girl , just general chit chat but I have a gut feeling it’s more than that, he’s since deleted the messenger app , would anyone message the girl and ask if anything is going on? I feel stupid but my gut feelings telling me otherwise
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I would ask her or else you will be tormented wondering what was said. You won’t get a straight answer from him, he’s already trying to hide stuff. Be nice to her though & don’t ask like a jealous gf. X
Reply to post please, I did bring it up and he got extremely defensive saying he knows her and has been out with her as friends a few times, I have never heard of her before this xx
As awful as im about to sound and il probs get a little bashing but omgg why is it no1 can be friends with the opposite sex. Why does no1 trust there partners… i understand if cheating has happened before but if you dont trust someone your with why be with them…. yes people get arsy if there up to no good but tbh they might be getting arsy cause you dont trust them. Maybe hes deleted to save arguements with you.
Maybe he just likes his privacy doesn’t mean anything is going on.. He’s probably deleted it because he knows you can see it he is allowed privacy I don’t let my partner see things o my phone.. if he asked I may show him but ones allowed to have his privacy
If it’s general chit chat I would leave it and see if it progresses. If you mention anything now he might think you’re being extremely jealous, especially as it is just general chat? OR if you feel you can’t wait and need to ask him just bring it up in general conversation, see where it goes. If he gets defensive you know he’s lying.
Men can be friends with women but why would he need to be so secretive about it? My husband has female friends he talks to over Facebook but doesn’t hide it! Anytime I wanted to read the messages I know I could (I don’t bother as I obviously trust him!). Would he let you check the messages? If not then clearly something to hide!
Your gut feeling will eat away at you and eventually drive you crazy. I would ask him again. If you go to her and he finds out it is going to cause even more problems and possibly lead to you breaking up if there is a big lack of trust.
Always trust your gut feelings . Ask him .
If it’s innocent he won’t mind you asking .
People only get arsey when they have something to hide x
Never, ever doubt your gut feeling! If he’s defensive he’s hiding something….it’s as simple as that. Chin up x
Why would he suddenly delete messenger? & why go upstairs to do it?,ide definetly not let it go until I knew the truth! xxx
Your guts always right, I’ve learnt from experience x