Could I have this post privately please.
I really need advice or someone to speak to. I’m so unhappy in my relationship with my partner. I won’t go into details because I’ve already decided enough is enough. We rent a house together and share bills and food shop. There is no room at any of our families houses for us if we separate. I don’t get how I can get out of this. I wouldn’t just leave in the night obviously I would sit down talk and then leave. But ladies how do I do it ? I work part time evenings and weekends 24hrs and get paid 170 weekly from work. Our child isn’t in nursery. But how would I afford rent alone ? what do we do with the furniture in the house ? would one of us stay in this house ? It’s just over £500 a month so I definitely wouldn’t be able to pay the rent here alone. I’m sorry I’m probably repeating myself and not making sense but I just feel a bit trapped and don’t know how to take the first step to leave. Well, the step after telling my partner it’s not working and I don’t feel like I love him anymore. Any advice is welcome and I would really appreciate it 😢