Could I ppp. Please bear with me on this post ladies. I’ve been with my partner …
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Could I ppp. Please bear with me on this post ladies. I’ve been with my partner two year and we have a son together. As per everything was amazing at the start but sharp went down hill but I fell head over heels in love with him so I didn’t leave. Then I fell pregnant so felt like a couldn’t leave for our son. Now he bullys me every single day calling me a mongo,Stupid,idiot,slut, retarded the list is endless, yet I say sorry when he calls me names because he makes me feel bad for him having ago at me for no reason. I feel Shit every single day. He’s never ever got my anything for my b.day Xmas or mothers day. I’ve always spend a fair amount on him ( I don’t give to get back but a card would be amazing or him even saying happy birthday to me would be amazing but he doesn’t 😕) I do everything for him he asks for a drink I jump up and get it ext. Basically I’ve had enough and I NEED to leave him. I can’t cope with him and how he treats me. Tells our son to call me a mongo aswell. But our council house is in our names so what would happen if it went to council and explain this? How he get made to move out or would i get another house? Also what money would.i get? On maturity leave atm. Tia
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Could you please reply to Victoria comment please. Yes sometime he screams in my face shout,grabs me pushed me about. Threatens to smash me on a daily basis. But thankyou I will.phone them tomorrow and see if I can make an appt x
they will expect him to leave unless he is violent and your running from that does he get abusive like screaming an shouting or is it just vile name calling an generally putting you down if he’s shouting an screaming you can call the police an have him removed but with out an order in place he can just come back to the property as it’s joint if u leave an the council don’t agree I that you left for reason they can deem you intentionally homeless an not rehome you.
you could make an appionment with the council behind his back and see what can be done to protect you an you child if you have him removed what your rights ect
There’s organisations that help with this sort of thing. Also the council will totally understand I’m sure they would rehouse you. It’s jot going to be easy so brace yourself but it will be worth it in the end. You really don’t deserve to live like that and neither does your son. Hope all turns out ok for you both xx
Ring women’s aid they will give you help and support quicker than the council they will help sort everything out x