Hi there can I get a post please, it’s just a rant really! Well my sister and my…
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Hi there can I get a post please, it’s just a rant really! Well my sister and my niece and her pet moved in with me in march coz she got kicked out of social housing because of rent arrears being over 1000, well anyways as you can see it’s not end of July and she is still here and they won’t let her have another house until she pays it ALL off she’s only 350 away from it being all off. Anyways I work my like around them, every single day of my life since they’ve moved in. My sister has now started working full time as where she works is that understaffed she has to, plus she’s too soft. Anyways so I have her daughter as well as mine everyday, I’m late to work everyday taking them to nursery because my niece hates walking, I even set off early to try get there on time. And have to finish work after 4 hours of being there to get back so she can go straight to work and then she’s not back till after 2am as she’s in a kitchen. But anyway I have 3 days off this week for the first time since they’ve moved in and I just want a break. I need one. I’m going mad, even my bosses at work have noticed how down and stressed I am, the problem isn’t with my sister, it’s my boyfriend that lives with us too, well I refused to make tea tonight as I want a night off, I’ve been cleaning all day and took dogs for a walk even though all I wanted to do was relax. My sister took the girls to nursery today as she realises how stressed and tired I am, like this weekend was the longest she’s spent with her kid in a couple of weeks she works that much. I never have anytime to myself anymore. At all. It driving me mad. But my boyfriend flipped and called me a lazy ass bitch just because I wanted a night off and just wanted to chill out for once, and kept on going on and on about it, but he never has to revolve his life around anyone else but himself. But it is making me think am i being selfish? Or do I deserve at least a night off to not do a thing? Is anyone else’s other half like that? Incapable of doing anything for himself?! Most days I feel like walking out the door with my daughter and not coming back. Sorry I just think I needed to get it off my chest, I have no one to speak to. Xx tia
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I’d stop doing anything for him, if you’re doing it all what’s he doing to help anyway. Sounds like his the lazy one. You’re a good sister she’s lucky to have you. Personally I’d keep them and kick him out. When you have family you come as a package you are taking care of your family shame your bf isn’t taking care of you.
He’s the lazy one and damned ungrateful too if that’s they way he treats you when you tell him you’re having a night off to relax! Tell him he needs to get over himself and think of you for once.
I cook for 3 kids on a daily basis, and then have to cook for me and my fella so it’s not wrong to want a night off at all,
Hes a fucking dick head if what ur saying is true why the hell isn’t he making tea now and again he calls you lazy what the hell is he then x
I’d make his tea for him then throw it at him the cheeky twat !!
ignore my post little boy grabbed phone