Could you please post this anonymous. Thank you Im just looking for the honest…
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Could you please post this anonymous. Thank you 😊
Im just looking for the honest truth about my situation.
I’m currently 35 weeks pregnant. I’m gay and now a single mum to be.
At 30 weeks pregnant my partner/ fiancé of 4 years on and off decided she no longer whats to be apart of our daughters life. The road it took us to get pregnant thru a sperm donor was incredible. She has always wanted a family to call our own.
So our wish was granted on the 30th of October 2016. Now we have had some rough times her cheating in the past and me being insecure about our relationship. But knowing full well that i loved this girl with all my heart no matter the pain and hurt she has caused. I stood by her. Things were great when we moved down south to be with her family and make a life for ourselfs and start a family. About a month or so ago. I was getting emotional as you do with pregnancy and i was a bit distant from her. I asked if she wanted to go camping by herself to have some time away. That day i didnt know but she was planning on taking another female camping with her. I found out by a msg saying i didn’t know if i should text or not but couldn’t get a babysitter delete this msg.
To me she went behind my back and planned this without me knowing. So i cracked it. Didnt sleep in the same room for two nights. No good morning or i love you when she walked out for work.
We got over it then one morning she just popped out from nowhere saying she doesn’t want this baby to have her last name and doesnt want her family nor her self to get attached to this baby because she doesn’t see it lasting.
I packed my bags and drove back to Qld from Victoria that afternoon.
I don’t love her anymore but i just dont understand how she can walk away from her daughter that she help create? She acts like its not hers. Biologically it isn’t but i dont see it that way nor should I. We done this together. But what rights does she have to turn a blind eye. I have tried everything to get her to be apart of bubs life.
What else is there to do or does anyone have advise. Or been in the same situation gay or straight it’s all the same to me 😊
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