dont know what am expecting but really need to get this of my chest… i av 3 ch…
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dont know what am expecting but really need to get this of my chest… i av 3 children all under 5 my partner is working 6-7am til 5 ish he comes home for dinner at 12… in this time i have a kid full time at school one parttime one at home i do all school runs make sure dinners ready for him to come at 12, all cooking cleaning iv put loads of weight on so iv joined gym.. my partner gets in has a face on as of hes had a hard day wants dinner peacefuly without the kids disturbing him a cup of tea the house spotless kids all spotless and me all happy.. then kids sleep 7-8 and hes out again for a walk.. yet am a bad mum that cant manage the kids, am messy he moans about every single thing am soooo fed up..
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He’s living on cloud 9! If he wanted a showroom home and also a quiet one he should of kept it in he’s pants! Your not a bad mum your a worn out one take time for yourself and enjoy 😊
With a 21 month old and a 3 month old I totally understand how much hard work it can be but Mums forget that the Dad’s also go out all day and never stop, you need to stop acting like it’s a competition of who is the most tired and focus on supporting each other and your family as best you can, you both work hard, you both need breaks it’s not one over the other
If he wants a perfect life where kids don’t make a sound or a mess then maybe he should bugger off and buy a goldfish!
Seriously though, don’t be so hard on yourself, maybe try explaining how you feel? I have only 1 child and I have my moments where there’s just not enough hours in the day to do all housewife duties and be a parent and keep everyone happy so I can’t imagine how you do it all with 3 children, good on you!! Maybe you should take off, just for the day like a full day out, some me time, and let him do everything you do? Hel soon appreciate everything you do x
Maybe dad shud book a few days off work and do ur role n see how he feels then after hes not coped doing what u do lol x
So in other words he wants a stepford wife? Tell him where to shove it and maybe he should do your job for a few days.