Hello can I have a ppp, I don’t know how to deal with this situation anymore… …

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Hello can I have a ppp, I don’t know how to deal with this situation anymore… I have a boy and a girl. My boy is my first born, my mum was so in love with him when it was just him! However my daughter wasn’t planned, there was thoughts about what would be best as my son was only 5 months old when I fell pregnant again.. my mum always told me she’s respect my choices and which she did. As I now have two beautiful children. However i can’t help but feel and notice how much my mum favourites my daughter.. it’s so blatant. With little hints “who’s a nannys girl” if i ask my mum to watch my kids.. it’s a issue. If I want her to just watch my daughter that’s perfect and she can’t wait! She notices everything my daughter learns as soon as she learns it! However my son gets absolutely no praise from her.. she constantly tells me my son hates her.. he doesn’t hate her! He just notices the attention my daughter gets he knows he isn’t treated the same therefore he hardly bats an eyelid over my mum. When she answers the door.. hellos to goodbyes my daughter gets the first and last bit of her attention. I just don’t know how to approach my mum with this.. my son is 3 next month and I’m worried if she doesn’t stop he’s really gonna pick up on it. I want him to be able to bond with her. 😞 but I don’t want to make it blatant. I know people will say I shouldn’t beat around the bush but the truth is me and my mum fell out for years.. she made me homeless when I was 16. But we talk well now and we get on for my kids. I don’t wanna pick rows but I can’t help but feel so frustrated with my mum over the way she is with him.. he was premature and he’s learning at his own pace. He’s picked up amazingly well since starting nursery with his speech etc but it goes unnoticed by my mum. Any advice would be greatly appreciated x
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