Hey can I have a private post please. I’m need a bit of advice, me and my chil…
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Hey can I have a private post please.
I’m need a bit of advice, me and my child’s dad spilt up about a month ago; his already got a new gf. Anyways he always chooses her over his son constantly his sons 2 Iv give him dates and times and he just ignores or doesn’t turn up, but when he asked to see our child and I reply ‘no sorry isn’t your day’ he’ll have ago and tell me I’m disgusting stopping him seeing his son, baring in mind yesterday (Sunday) my son left 4 voice mails on his phone asking him to come to the park and see the trains with him and he just ignores him. His day is tomorrow which Iv just reminded him about 4-6 and his just told me his on late shifts so I offered the morning and his said no he can’t do it as his with her?
How would you girls go about it??
(And before you all start over me being a jealous ex 4 years of cheating and lies and mental abuse I’m deffo not a jealous ex)
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Keep offering the same dates and times or sit and talk to him see what days he has off sort something out suitable and keep records… if he dont show you tried… DONT EVER STOP THE CONTACT… as you end up the bad guy
Go to mediation. I would advise court but know before court proceedings will be considered you have to go through mediation. It really is all you can do. x
Don’t offer or remind don’t say anything just go to mediation and if you have to take it to court get a plan in place then if he don’t stick to it then it’s his loss
If it was me I’d just wait until he wants to see his child n then let him because he’s the one loosing out not your child
Maybe ask him what days he wants so that he’s choose them and see what happens compromise a day each if needed see if that helps