Hey. Can you please post this for me? I’ve never got along with my mum. She know…

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Hey. Can you please post this for me?
I’ve never got along with my mum. She knows exactly what to do and say to annoy me and keeps doing it. I’ve always been a daddies girl. He just doesn’t do my he’d in at all. Anyway. I was diagnosed with epilepsy at 16, parents divorced when I was 20. Unfortunately I didn’t get a choice of who I could live with and had to stay with my mum. I never start an argument or give her shitty attitude, but I do stick up for myself. When I was 21 my shoulders started dislocating easily. I’ve had three ops on both and my mum has helped looking after my son a lot. Both her and my dad thinks it’s okay if my mum talks and treats me like shit. That I should ‘put up with it’. Yet if I stick up for myself she literally goes crying to my dad (like a baby). She’s grabbed me round the throat, slapped me across my face and punched my shoulder (unstable not okay). Yet both her and dad said it was okay because I ‘pushed her to it’. I think she has bipolar. She’s had goes at my friends in the past for no reason. She’s told me I’m not her daughter, that I’m embarrassing, she hates me, that I can’t wait for her to die (I’ve never said that) and she couldn’t think of anything good about me to say to the councillor. My brother is an angel in her eyes (been in trouble with police, disrespecting her house) she runs around after him even though he’s 32. He’s never left home. He lives in what used to be her house until she met her bf. It was the same with her and her brother. She hated it too. The only pattern I see is my gran had a stillborn before my mum and mum had a miscarriage before me. How can I get it through to my mum’s head that she can’t treat me like shit?! I’ve tried everything. She even treats my son like he’s her own. Even teachers have noticed and said to her. I struggled with my son in the past as I’m a single mum. But I’ve got a lot better and she hates that. She’s only happy when I’m struggling. Anyone been in a similar situation?! Sorry it’s mega long and prob doesn’t make sense!! It’s bedtime for my son here so trying to keep an eye out 😉
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