Hey, could i get a ppp? please ? so just wondering what others would do. my pa…

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Hey, could i get a ppp? please ?
so just wondering what others would do.
my partner said he is tempted to call ss and he doesnt know half of it.

obviously tell me if im overreacting and should mind my own business!

my friend is in an unhealthy relationship, they yell at each other, she is his door mat when it comes to hosue work money and insults. he degrades her all the time and isnt shy about it. hes an immature brat that sits on his xbox all day long. she is a little overdramatic over her anxiety and how much she loves him. but its just not a good reltionship and its so obvious to anyone. but thats niether here nor there. you know the type. she wont elave him no matter how many times she cries and threatens to.

my question is. they have an 11 mo th old who sees all this. and sees the fights and anger issues. he is way behind my 12 month old (i know i know. all babies develop differently) but i mean hes only started rolling whereas mine has been running since 9 months. the baby refuses to be held hugged or kissed…. which strikes me as really weird. he doesnt mind me hugging him but he wont let his parents hold him more than necessary.

he is set in front of a tv in a jumperoo all the time.
im not trying to judge ! but they give him no attention and she speaks to him in a high pitch voice rather than talk normal.
the dad rarely does anything for him. last time i was there he was practicing mma healdock/arntwist moves on the baby.

obviously rough play and not intentionally hurting the baby but we all know how easily it is to dislocate an arm. i near squealed at how rough he was being.

im sure theyre good parents. different from me but good…. it just feels like its an unhealthy environment for the baby. ss were involved when he was a newborn because of hwr past but they closed the case. is there any point maybe calling ss ?

it feels like an over reaction but she shouldnt be there and niether should the baby.
with a little counselling or help mayve it could all turn around but ive tried every approach i can think of. except ss 😞

what would you do ? leave it and take it the child might be fine or contact ss incase he ends up feeling neglected scared or with anger issues 😞

im not trying to be a nosey cow, it just feels wrong. please and thankyou!!!!
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