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Hey could I have a private post please.. Hey girls I’m pretty fuming! I don’t re…

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Hey could I have a private post please.. Hey girls I’m pretty fuming! I don’t really know if I should be Though! I’m happily take it if I’m wrong. Right my baby’s dad, seems to think he can walk into his life as and when he pleases. So I told him round Christmas time he ether steps up or steps out because I don’t think it’s fair that he’s around for months then doesn’t bother for 6. So anyway he was doing good keeping it up seeing him regular. I’ve never asked for penny for him even tho he earns 450 a week! I earn far less than him but I have enough to provide so I didn’t mind. I needed to start putting my little one in nursery more so I could change my hours instead of weekends when I was struggling with childcare to in the week. Which I do get some help off tax credits but I still have to pay a really big chunk so I feel like I’m still working for nothing. Anyway I asked him could he start to pay £20 a week towards it as he won’t help me by having my son for a good few hours so I can actually work. He’d see him for an hour here and an hour there. But once I asked him he blocked my number blocked me off Facebook and so did his girlfriend. I’ve been told he’s skint and can’t afford to pay for him so I thought well I understand that but he’s mum told me last night that he’s just paid for 3, 2 week holidays back to back from each other so basically he’s got a 6 week holiday. Fair enough everyone deserves a holiday but can you really be that skint not pay so little for your son but can book three holidays. I’m actually really pissed off and I don’t know if I should be?x
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5 thoughts on “Hey could I have a private post please.. Hey girls I’m pretty fuming! I don’t re…

  • Take him for child support or ask him to terminate his rights because he helped create the child he she have to help pay for him. I mean asking 20$ isn’t a lot. 3 holidays is.

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  • Ring CMS that’s what CSA have changed to now, I’ve done it my sons dad has never bothered with him he totally ignores me but it’s the best thing I ever did xx

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  • Id apply for maintenance. He will end up paying a lot more than 20 a week

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  • You have every right to be pissed Call child maintenance service (Csa) might take a while but worth it in end

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