Hey Hun can you do me a pp I just found out I’m pregnant with my third baby but…
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Hey Hun can you do me a pp
I just found out I’m pregnant with my third baby but second pregnancy cos first one was with twins… my partner is adamant the he doesn’t want the baby… I thought I took the morning after pill a few times!.. I didn’t though cos they make me so ill… I didn’t tell him until a few days ago and of course I understand he is angry cos I wasn’t honest but I honestly don’t know what to do !… he said I either get rid of it or I will loose him 😕
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Can you also post that my twins are not his and they’re 2 and he has a daughter by someone else who is 4 but he is saying that it’s all to much for him to cope with 😕
Can you post please that he wanted me to take the morning after pill like 4 times in space of a week and half! I’ve taken it before and it makes me so ill! Out of 4 I took it two times so I am surprised it hasn’t worked! And I respect everyone’s comments I know I shouldn’t of lied to him I think I just wanted a baby cos me and partner had a chemical pregnancy at the beginning of the year 😞
Everyone slating him..she lied about the type of.l contraception she was taking..maybe if she was honest he would have used a condom or taken more care..yes a bit harsh what he is saying, but it sounds like she was clearly dishonest and wanted another child..
Everyone’s calling him a dickhead but technically he thought you were taking precautions to prevent pregnancy and now you’ve bombarded him that you pregnant and also that you lied about the pill. He’s every right to freak out. Give him time he might come around but you can only blame yourself for your actions.
Everyone is going to say tell him to get lost. But as everyone can see from the story. YOU lied and conceived in deceipt. While i understand a woman has to carry the sperm that makes a child, it TAKES 2 to make a child. Therefor it should be 2 that accepts that responsibility. Unfortunetly this woman lied and concieved as a result. The male in this instance was an unwilling partner though of course he should have used protection for many reason so is partly to blame.
So YOU trap him by lying about taking the morning after pill (which, by the way is not a form of contraception!) and now you are bleating on because he’s upset you are pregnant. Fair enough he should have used something, but if he thought you were on contraception then you need to take responsibility too. Ultimately it’s your decision but I don’t agree with just slating him!
Everyone defending her yet she’s purposely trapped him.. Hypocrites 🙄 she’s 100% in the wrong, he made it clear beforehand he didnt want a baby!
Firstly the morning after pill is for an EMERGENCY (generally single not plural) not a contraception I would say this is something you need to address especially if you didn’t even take it even you said you did. There is just so many careless mistakes here that how could you think you wouldn’t fall pregnant? This isn’t a mistake it’s inevitability! Neither should termination be a form of contraception. I’m sorry if I sound harsh but I’m in utter shock at your lack of care at such a massive thing. You have made a baby, a child knowingly and regardless of your partners reaction that’s irresponsible. He is clearly shocked and will have affected how he trusts you and I don’t blame him.
You lied, simple as that. Give the guy time he might come around, but for the love of fucking god don’t force him to stay with you or look after the kid if he doesn’t want to. Just because you want to take a child to term and he absolutely doesn’t doesn’t mean that he should have to be forced in to it. Especially not when it’s because you were a dishonest arsehole. Sorry love but there’s no nice way around it.
your a idiot for lying about what precautions you are taking and he is a idiot for not wrapping it up!!! I’m desperate for another baby but me and my partner have agreed next year after we get married we can start trying for another one as he said he wants to wait until after the wedding (fair enough) and I respect him for that and willing to wait and would never not take my pill
1 he must have known u wasn’t on anything as asked to take morning after pill so he should have wrapped up…..BUT you also knew this aswel and are just as bad as uv now basically trapped him…..your both been stupid in not protecting yourselfs and now ur in this situation! If he was to take a johnny off mid sex ud prob go bonkers…..so the fact you’ve lied about taking morning after pill is basically the same thing! If he wants to walk away let him….and you deal with whatever decision you make about the baby….if he doesn’t want to be a dad unfortunately you cant make him….
There’s no point being saying she’s in the wrong now, what’s done is done, she knows she’s done wrong so all she can do now is hope for the best. Whatever you do is YOUR decision, it’s your life and your decision on what happens next. Good luck x
Trap him ! Takes both to mess up. Morning after pill is not a form of contraception. You should of both spoke about long term contraception and acted responsibly. Now there is a little baby involved. Id tell him to get lost. Bring your children up and get on some proper contraception.
He shouldn’t give you an ultimatum that is wrong but you lied to him, I’m sure if he lied to you, you would feel hurt angry and upset. We all say nasty things when we are angry. Let him calm down and get his head round it but you can’t expect him to be happy.
No guy should ever make you choose! If he’s not interested then let him leave – he’s telling you to kill your child and anyone that would do that – doesn’t deserve to be part of my children’s life! You shouldn’t have lied to him! At all! But still – your baby and no one should force you to into anything you don’t want to do. Good luck! Xx
The morning after pill is not contraception . It’s meant to be used in emergency . And really you have tricked him which is unfair on him . But that said and done if you really want this child then don’t let him bully you into aborting it . Though you will probably face back lash from his family for lying. You obviously really want this baby so just ride the tough times ahead . He may come around once the initial shock wears off . Good luck x x
Morning after pill is not for everyday contraception so he knew she wasn’t on everyday contraception, so the contraception issue they are both at fault, BUT she shouldn’t have lied to him about it. And if he doesn’t feel different after the initial shock then it’s up to him if he walks away you can’t make him stay, I would never abort a child on the basis of an ultimatum x
Omg I can’t believe what I’m reading ! She trapped him ! It would be a different matter if the bloke took his comdom off !!!! The poor bloke didn’t get a chance , no wounder he wants to leave you! I’m totally shocked !!!!
I’d give it a few days then talk to him. It’s obviously a very big shock as you lied to him about the pill and very rightly so for him to be angry. However he shouldn’t make you choose between him and your child. Only you know what you want
Firstly you lied to to him
Secondly if you where having sex you should have protected yourself not just for pregnancy but infections you are both to blame you are both adults it takes two to tango and make a baby instead of just blaming him take a look at your own actions too
Okay yea if he didn’t want a b baby he could have used a condom but also u was letting him think u were taking the morning after pill so u have put your self in this situation I say u need to sick it up and take care of that child with or with out him if u didn’t lie u wouldn’t b in this situation sorry but I have no sympathy for u
No one has helped this poor lady. It’s your decision and something you and your partner need to sort out. It sounds like there is more to discuss then what you have shared. Goodluck and I hope everything works out 🌸
Let him go. You don’t deserve someone like that in your life. No one should ever treat you that way. If he was so adamant about not having a child then maybe he should of used protection or get a vasectomy. What an arse hole.
I’d rather lose him than get rid of the baby after giving you an ultimatum, what made you need the morning after pill may I ask?
You lied to him. If he doesn’t want a kid and you were telling him you were taking precautions then he doesn’t have to change his mind it’s as much his life as yours it’s changing.