Heya can I have a private post please? I really don’t know what to do anymore….

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Heya can I have a private post please?

I really don’t know what to do anymore. my bf of 9 years has started a new job, at first it was brill and the break thru we really needed, but it has changed him a lot!! Every time I ask him about his day or where abouts he has been (he travels a bit) he just gets uptight and starts rushing to tell me and goes off the subject! I’m not paranoid I just want to know about his day as he don’t seem to bother to ask me how me and our 2 kids are and what we have been doing!!

I make sure the house is spotless for when he is back, i try and make sure dinner is ready or at least planned because he can come back any time of night.

Sometimes me and kids will have a whole day out so I’m not back to tidy around the odd bits that were left out (our 3&4 year olds toys ect) but he will just make sarcastic remarks on how I haven’t done anything all day!
When he comes back there is limited conversation, the kids will get 5 mins of his time but then he just shouts at them over nothing and now I feel like when I speak to him I’m walking on egg shells, he will speak to other people nice but just talk to me like s*** and have a go at our kids!!

At fist I thought the job was stressing him out so I sat him down and tried to talk to him about it but he said he was enjoying it and that was conversation over!!
I feel like when his at work me and the kids are happy and we just get on with our day but when his back we seem to all be so tense!

The kids really do adore him and his a brill dad but with they way he talks to us and shouts, his upsetting us lately!

I really don’t want the relationship to be over, I would rather stay and try and sort it out but now i can see it’s starting to affect the kids now so I don’t know what to say or do!!
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