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Hi all , I really worried as I’m 12weeks after a baby as I recently went out wi…

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Hi all ,
I really worried as I’m 12weeks after a baby as I recently went out with friends and boyfriend for a night out as I was waiting on a period to get the bar in or the pill as I got them on Friday and didn’t have time to go doctors as the Saturday night we all went out that night me and my partner had intercourse next morning realised we hadn’t used protection and so worried incase I turn out pregnant what will I do and terrified what everyone will think of me just after a baby and having another worried incase my body’s not ready for a baby as I’m just after one and if I turn out to be pregnant he wont even be 1 when I have the next help please as I’m cracking up and worried about all this. No hate thanks
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  • There is just over a year between my two, we planned it that way, everyone thinks I’m mad but I had no hate or anything off them just shock haha 😂😂
    Also my pregnancy and labour was great, no problems at all and I was really concerned as I had Stitches with my first but I didn’t even graze the second time round 😊

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  • I’ve just had my second! My first was born 17 June 16. & youngest 1 June 17! So there both under 1 at the moment. Who cares what people think! If you and your partner are happy 😌

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  • Some people find 2 babies close in age easy, but I’m going to be realistic, I have twins, and it’s really hard work, let me tell why it’s hard for me: I don’t drive, it’s hard for me to find time to learn as I can never find anyone to watch them for the couple of hours. If you have to go out with a trolley it’s so hard to get around because double trolleys are a lot heavier, and you can’t always access transport due to the lack of space, plus 2 small children in a buggy tend to want to get out, another hard one. Then taking them out on foot is hard cos you need eyes everywhere not to mention 2 lots of tantrums to cope with. Feeding times a lot of mess to clear up, having to settle 2 at night. Not to mention the expense. The fights and they will fight. Don’t get me wrong it’s also rewarding, and I wouldn’t be without them. But atm I’m house bound through the week as I have no-one to help me take them out to make it easier. If your not ready, then take the morning after pill and enjoy your little one grow. If you are ready for double trouble then don’t but believe me, without any family help, it’s the toughest job in the world.

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  • Take morning after pill if youre worried. I had unprotected sex 4 weeks after giving birth but i didnt get pregnant. Also i know a lot of people who have babies like that and they love it

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  • Work out the day you started your last period and work out your ovulation days… this should be between 12 and 17 days normally after your period started, if you didn’t have intercourse in this time period your chances are low of being pregnant, but if you are worried then take morning after pill, lots of people fall pregnant straight after having a baby, it’s whether you choose to listen to other people’s judgments, if it’s what you want then why should other people’s views affect you?x

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  • Just see what happens … I you are well … these things happen and it’s more to fill your heart … best wishes … You’ll get there whatever happens xxx

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  • 11 months between my 2 and 2 years between them and my youngest. I love it then being so close fight like cat and dog but protect eachother

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  • No need to worry about your body being ready for another, my kids are 10 months apart so you’d be fine lol

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