Hi can I have a post please. Could really do with some advice regarding partners…

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Hi can I have a post please. Could really do with some advice regarding partners ex .
So they have been split up 8 years we have been together 5 , she picks an choses what the routine is when it suits stops my partners child coming when she feels or try’s to make better plans with him on our days so he doesn’t come , child is 10 an very protective of mum an looks down on his dad because he’s not rich his ex only gets with rich men .
So I thought the longer we was together it would get easier it don’t it’s been 5 years now we have 2 children together an I have one child from a previous who sees my partner as dad as her dad disappeared when she was born .. so anyway she has got csa involved my partner does pay them but not always on time as he is self employed so don’t get paid regular but she gets a lump sum of money to always catch up . My partner had a siesure (spelling 😂) just before Christmas and couldn’t drive or work for a while but still paid what he could but has some arrears now , he’s doing his best to pay it off so here’s the thing she told csa we never have him over night or don’t have other children so she gets more money … she started again tonight with more nasty texts about something happening an she will get it one way or another an being really threatening , even though he paid her £1000 about 2 weeks ago , she said we have 2 weeks to come up with another 1500 or she will sort it .. he spoke to csa about the fact he paid her 1000 but there saying they can’t prove she didn’t lend him money an he paid it back it’s such a joke. So all the money that’s owed is because she’s lied saying we do nothing an never have him . But we have him a lot unless she’s on one an stops us. All he wants to do is be there every weekend but it’s when she lets him or when she wants to go out or on holiday ect .
We’re due to get married next month an she saying if he don’t give her money by then then she will mess the wedding around not sure what she means by this but it’s really concerning me .
Also the boy has suddenly took a huge dislike to my 5 year old the last year but on one of her messages today she said you pay for a child he doesn’t even like but not your own so I’m guessing it’s come from her why he now bully’s her everytime he comes over .
We do provide clothes money an have him but it’s Never enough an I just don’t know what to do now an the treats are scary with the wedding so close . We have also booked to take them all away in the summer holidays so we include him in everything we can .
The little boy is so messed up it’s like he’s not allowed to like or love any of us especially not me or my daughter .
Any advice would be great as I’m so stressed out with it all
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