Hi can I have a post please. I’m getting married next year to the man I love. We…

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Hi can I have a post please. I’m getting married next year to the man I love. We’ve got two children and Iv got an older girl. We are having a church wedding then the after bit is in a hotel. We’ve been saving up for about five years for this and it’s by no means posh but it was important to me to have the nice meal and then the night bit too. However I don’t get on with my mums brother (uncle) my mum does talk to him cause she doesn’t hold a grudge but he was so horrid to my mum when my grandparents died. He’s never been there for me or my children, don’t think he’d even know when our birthdays are. He never visits, never calls. He sends cards and stuff to my cousins but not me. Do I have to invite him to the wedding? My nana died last year suddenly and she would expect me to invite him. I know my mum would to. I wouldn’t even know where to sit him and my partner has only met him about four times in all the time we’ve been together but he kinda thinks we should invite him because it’s the right thing to do. Is it the right thing to do? Should you invite people you don’t like to your wedding just so it doesn’t offend anyone else. My mum would never tell me what to do but it would bother her. But on the other hand why should I pay for him and his wife to come and celebrate our day when they’ve never been there ?? Thanks. Sorry to rant.
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