Hi can I have a pp please. So my child’s dad left 2 months ago. No warning or an…

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Hi can I have a pp please. So my child’s dad left 2 months ago. No warning or anything. Said he didnt love me anymore, he wanted to feel happiness again but not with me etc. Said he wanted space, I’ve tried to give him that but on days where I’ve felt strong and not contacted him, he ends up contacting me. Video calls he says just to see my face. We’ve spent quite a bit of time together recently, had a good talk and got everything off our chest, cried loads, hugged loads. Anyway yesterday he told me he wants to do things as a family and also separate things as a couple like date nights etc. We went for a lovely meal yesterday then to the beach while our child was at school. All seems like it’s going well but he said he wants to take things really slow, not move back in, doesn’t know if that’s even what he wants cos he said he’s scared things will go back to how they used to be (arguing etc, nothing major, just day to day stuff) my question is, am I being taken for a mug? I love him so much I’d do anything for him and he knows this, but at the same time I’m not going to allow myself to be a doormat. His family think he’s depressed, I think so too so I know I need to tread carefully but how slow am I supposed to take things? We already have have a child together, spending time together isn’t going to do her any favours if he then decides he doesn’t actually actually want to come back. Nor me either, I just want him to come home but don’t want to be pushy but I also don’t know how to handle it. Just looking to see if anyone else has been in this situation and what was the outcome. Thanks
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