Hi, can I have a PPP please? Sorry about the long post. I’ve ended things with …
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Hi, can I have a PPP please? Sorry about the long post.
I’ve ended things with my partner , and I’ve said he can’t see the baby, nor will he be on the birth certificate. I feel horrible about it, but from doing a 20 minute trial shift and walking home, he’s become horrible to be around; always yelling at me and as soon as I defend my self, he goes off and punches a wall or starts yelling.
I’ve said, due to that behaviour, if it carries on whilst he’s working, he won’t be alone with my child.
Also, a worker came round the other day and saw the state of the house, also saying if I bought the baby back here, I would probably have him taken away due to it being classed as putting the baby in danger. My partner didn’t seem too bothered by this. So I’ve said the baby won’t be in this house longer than a few hours a week. (I’m always cleaning but he doesn’t care, and disrespects the house and is lazy)
He’s made it clear, that his wages, when he starts work, will be spent on him and him only, he refuses to put more than £5 a month on the baby.
I’ve turned and said I feel like he doesn’t care about either of us, he shrugged and walk away not saying anything…. But now he’s mad at me because I won’t take the baby on days out with him, so he will have nothing to do with my child.
And then today, he’s refused to spend time with me as last night, I refused to do anything sexual with him after he tried getting it on whilst I was in the bath. So he now has gone in a strop because he feels “hard-done-by”. To the point he might be self harming again, I know it’s wrong but I told him “go ahead, you have a choice either the blades or my unborn child. See where it gets you. I won’t have an unstable person around my baby.”
I’m fighting and losing battle as he is always playing games, or trying to get sexual time with me.
Do you think I’ve been too harsh? Do you think I’m doing the right thing for my baby? Can anyone help with what I should do?
Thanks.
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