hi can i have a ppp. So its my little sisters birthday soon and ive got her some…
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hi can i have a ppp. So its my little sisters birthday soon and ive got her some presents. But i told my fiances mum that i am struggling with money and i asked her if shes getting anything for her and she said no but she got stuff for Christmas and her 8th birthday. I mean even my fiance is getting her stuff when hes on a a fair amount of money. im feeling angry and upset. Am i overreacting or am i right to feel this way.?
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can you reply. I forgot to mention that she is very close with my sister and kept telling her that shell go and buy stuff for her birthday. No need to be rude im asking for advise not to be bashed either. Shes letting my sister down
I don’t see why your mother in law should buy your sister anything in all fairness, and you should buy stuff from both you and your partner for your sister, that way it’s fair x
If it’s your children her grand children I’d understand but not you sister …. I buy gifts for my sisters and always sign cards from me and my fiance … my partners family buy me a gifts at Christmas and my family buy my partner gifts which is really nice but we would never expect them to do that for us never mind buying for my sisters why should they? Unless I’m missing something?
It’s ok to be a bit pissed for things like that but it’s completely irrational……no one needs to buy gifts for anyone….and no one should expect any…..you said she has already promised a gift to your sister so you would expect her to keep her promise definitely…..maybe she’s keeping it a surprise….
Why would she buy your sister anything?? I can understand her buying you and your fella and any kids you have presents but not your family 😂
My in laws have never brought birthday or Christmas gifts for my family and we’ve been together 12 years.
And the fact that your upset over it… get your head out of your ass love and grow up
Not being rude in my comment. But maybe you MIL can’t afford it and just because she’s close with your sister doesn’t mean she has buy her something z she has her own family pay for, maybe just suggest to her she shouldn’t mention gettin her anything.
If it’s your sister why is your partners mum expected to fork out? Sorry but I think you’re over reacting.
No disrespect but why would you expect her to buy your sister ?
I’d never expect my in law’s to buy my siblings birthday gifts! X
My mother in law doesn’t buy for my family and I don’t expect her too and I don’t expect my mum to buy for my husband’s family either
Unless you mean it’s your fiancés sister I really don’t get the problem and I’ve re read it over and over 😂😂
His family buying for your family isn’t really a thing unless they choose to ….not something I have ever heard of
Why should your mother in law buy your sister presents? And you and your partner should buy stuff from both of you not separate
No she shouldn’t feel obligated to get anything for your sister at all…
Is this post serious ??? I’m very confused why you think she needs to, even if she got her stuff before doesn’t mean she should be expected to every time !!
What?! Why would your mother in law buy birthday presents for your little sister? 😂 you are definitely over reacting!
I’m sure your mil has enough of her own family to buy
For, why on earth would she buy for
Your family?
Yep I’m in agreement with everyone. (Sorry) your mother in law shouldn’t have to buy for your sister.
Don’t think she should have to buy for your sister?