Hi can I have a private post please ? Basically a few years ago now I met my p…

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Hi can I have a private post please ?

Basically a few years ago now I met my partner fell madly Inlove and quickly got engaged moved in and fell pregnant all within a year! Anyway at the beginning of our relationship it came to light that he had cheated with his ex within weeks of first meeting me once he came clean we put everything behind us and moved on despite his ex (who he has a child with) trying her best to split us and was contacting me on a daily basis harassing me! His family Mom dad brothers everyone took my side and was so helpful in makin me feel prt of the family! Anyway fast forward his dad brought us a house and we moved in and my partner at this point had absolutely no contact with his ex. Then everything changed his dad became very possessive ,bossy and controlling with our finances over the baby stuff telling me what brands to buy how to decorate the room judging me! I had hyperemius and was hospitalised many times to go on fluids and they frequently made me feel as tho I was attention seeking I had 3 miscarriages prior to the pregnancy which resulted in my son and so I was at high risk and monitored on a weekly basis by a doctor! One night I bled and went to hospital when my partner was out drinking with his dad and both drunk accused me of lying. His mom works at the hospital so no way I could have lied anyway eventually my partner came up and tended to me and I just couldn’t ever forgive his dad. I did look at him differently from this event and so did my own mother who absolutely hated him anyway! So when my beautiful boy way born a lot of things were swept under the carpet except we weren’t happy in his house anymore just because we found the area to not be suitable to bring a baby up In and felt we’d rushed into buying it anyway out of excitement so we handed our notice with his dad packed up and left to begin a new life an hour away. Since then the family have never forgiven me and had a heated exchange with my mom over txt message never me we’ve never once said a cross word to each other and now they refuse to talk to me! This was all 6 months ago and my partner didn’t talk to them either but a couple weeks ago decided to go and make amends with them on a whim! He literally called me when he was outside their house which angered me as to them it looks as tho he has gone alone because I’ve refused which I didn’t ! I would have gone to put all this to bed and move on! They made up with my partner but said i am not welcome round them. I’ve sent them numerous texts basically begging for forgiveness even though I know I’ve done nothing wrong! I’m just trying to move on for my sons sake. They haven’t seen him since he was 7 weeks old they haven’t brought him a single thing since he was born and they continue to parade his other son all over Facebook like a puppy and give him and now his ex tonnes of attention saying she’s beautiful and amazing Mom all this just to try and hurt me. I’ve still soldiered on knowing it’s best for my family to just nip it in the bud but I’ve txt them to night a nice new year txt saying I hope I get a second chance in the new year with them and been ignored. Again. I can’t take anymore of the bully’s and taking all this crap into the new year! I’ve been so strong apologising when not necessary and taking everything on the chin but how can I? I don’t want to lose my partner because his torn between the two! But I’m angry he’d be normal with them and allow them to treat me to rudely as I certainly wouldn’t let my family do that to him!! Im at a loss feel so lonely and worried to start the new year my anxiety is so bad and I’m just sick of being hated for absolutely no reason! No part of this story has been down played or altered I genuinely don’t get it! They told my partner they want nothing to do with me as they can’t trust me because some things my mom said to them could have only come from me! Well she’s my mom so of course I let off steam to her same as my partner does with them! Should I be angry at my mom!? What do I do !!!! Help 😩
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