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Hi can I have a private post please?
My ex and I split up last year when he walked out us. Leaving me with a just turned one year old and being 5 months pregnant. He never bothered much and when he did come just sat playing on his phone. Eventually started seeing someone and put them before his kids. I received all kids of abuse against me and about my kids. As a result of this I changed kids surnames to mine. I was allowed to do this because of the emotional abuse, I suffer with severe depression and anxiety and it was making me extremely ill. Amongst other things. Fast forward to today he’s recently found out I changed the surnames. He hasn’t bothered being put on youngest birth certificate so he can’t do nothing about that but threatening to change eldest name. Eldest is suffering anxiety at the age of two because of everything going on! Ex’s mother has verbally abused me all day and threatening me with court as apparently I’m a bad mom ect. I’ve done everything for my kids since day one always done everything with their interests at heart. They way things are I’m scared to even let my ex have contact with the kids (making more effort now he’s single) mainly because of his mother but also because he is backing everything she’s saying ‘she has a right’
I’m just at a loss at what to do there’s loads more to it all but I’d be here forever. I just need some advice has anyone been in a similar situation? Thanks
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  • If you aren’t comfortable with him having contact don’t do it. If it doesn’t feel right it probably isn’t xxxx

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