Hi can I have a private post please. My ex only bothers to demand to see our c…
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Hi can I have a private post please.
My ex only bothers to demand to see our children when it suits him. He’s seem them twice in 7 months. He can’t have them at his home because his gf has physically hurt our son when he was 6 and smacks our autistic non verbal daughter. He can’t take them out for the day as bought himself a 4 seater convertible. . We have 4 children. I’ve refused him access to my home as the last time he was here I left him with our children for 3 hrs to have some time with just them and he took one of our sons out up the road to show off his car…while leaving the other 3 including our daughter with special needs (on her own in the back garden) the other two in their separate bedrooms unattended. I’ve never stopped him seeing the children but he’ll drop them for months at a time no phone calls or anything.
Today he just turned up unannounced shouting demanding to see our youngest because it’s her birthday on Friday and he bought presents. My husband answered the door with our toddler in his arms and my ex threatened to kick his head in. I refused to go to the front door and rang the police. My question is has anyone had a restraining order done or got help to move? It’s been 4 years and I’m tired of the abuse. He’s been given chance after chance but just keeps being a idiot. I divorced him because of dv. .he’s still trying to control my life by using the children. Ss said it’s in the children’s best interests to not see him again he messes with their heads so much is been a hard past year to try to help them all with confidence and trust. I even moved over 100 miles to get away from the stress and abuse. If he could be in contact regular and treat the child well there’d be no issue but he’s just a evil person who sees them as objects he owns.
Who do I turn to for help… have no idea where to start but just can’t take it anymore. Xx
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I took out a harassment order out against my ex after we had split about 4 years enough was enough.. a year on I get the usual abuse at the weekend in texts but made him think his behaviour if he bothers 2 c kids. Stopped him kicking off at the door.. All u need 2do is a make a statement 2 police with any evidence 2 back it up x
There is a thing called a non-malsastation order (not sure how to spell it) you can apply for it online its basically the same as a restraining order xx