hi can I have a private post please: I am at my wits end, my daughter is 2 in j…

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hi can I have a private post please:

I am at my wits end, my daughter is 2 in just under a month. For the past 2 months she has been having vile tantrums, and when I say vile i mean VILE. She screams her head off anywhere we go. I have to do an hour bus journey every morning and every evening to get to college and get her to nursery. I understand she gets bored, but its the second we’re on the bus to the second we get off. She throws her dummy and toys out of the pram constantly, I’ve tried the taking it away and not giving it back, I’ve tried telling her off. I’ve tried explaining what shes done wrong. I’ve left so many toys and dummies on the bus to show her that she wont get it back if she carries on but she still does it. She hits me, headbuts me, kicks me, bites me the lot. She screams till shes red in the face. She doesn’t listen to a word i say. I’ve spoken to the nursery to get some tips and nothing theyve suggested is working. I’m starting to feel hatred towards doing anything with her. I get so nervous to go on the bus and on my days off and weekends i won’t go anywhere. I avoid inviting friends and family over because im embarrassed of her behaviour. Her loud screams trigger flashbacks, and panic attacks as I suffer from post traumatic stress disorder.
I won’t lay a finger on her, so suggestions of a tap on the hand or bum is a no no. But is there anything else I can do, I’m scared to live my day to day life in case people think i have an out of control kid or in case people see me trying to stop her and are judging me. It’s killing me😭
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