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Hi can I have a private post to the mums advice private chat page please.

Not baby related but family.. So 2years ago my mum and dad split up due to him having an affair they’d been together over 30 years and she was devastated. At the time I was married and lived far away but she came to see me every week and I cut all contact with my dad not that there was much contact with him since I’d got married I was never close to him anyway. He had never been a good husband to her anyway won’t go into too much detail. So I helped my mum through it and she was kept going waiting on the arrival of my baby 5months later I gave birth and my marriage fell apart my husband was horrible to me and her, once again she was destroyed and 3months later I left with my baby and moved back home to my mum so fast forward 18months and my dad has now split up with the women who he had a affair with and she has got the police involved in there rows and it looks like he is getting sent to prison. So my sister went to see him about 3weeks ago and has been about 6 times maybe. My mum has now also been 3 times (3rd time tonight). I have no want to go and I don’t see why I should. They have gone on about karma will get him for the last 2.5years and now there feeling sorry for him and letting him worm his way back in. I just don’t understand he didn’t choose to come back into there lives if my sister hadn’t of turned up to his work to see him he still wouldn’t have got in contact. Am I being unreasonable for being slightly pissed off and mad at them for going and letting him do this and am I unfair for not wanting to go??
Sorry for long post I hope it all makes sense and you get the jist of my story there’s lots of extra details I’ve missed out on but the main story’s there I think. Just feel like I’m an alien for feeling like this.

Thanks xx
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