Hi can you ladies give me advice? I’m 31 and have 4 children (a girl who’s 12 …

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Hi can you ladies give me advice?

I’m 31 and have 4 children (a girl who’s 12 in November, 8, 3 and 9 months old) my 8 year old has autism. Despite using protection (cerelle and then condoms as I had been feeling under the weather) I’m pregnant with my 5th.

Now please don’t bash me as I did all I could to avoid getting pregnant. I even had an appointment 2 weeks ago to discuss sterilisation as I have had 3 c sections.

Those closest to me have made valid points that I would struggle. I would have 3 under 4s, an autistic lad and a hormonal teenager. I also have a history of depression and anxiety. My relationship with my other half (he’s father to all of my children) is not at its best. He was just going on about money when I told him. Again I know that money is also a valid point, but that’s literally all he went on about.
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So people have mentioned that an abortion would be best as I have to think about my 4 children that I have. But I can’t bring myself to do it. I know a few women who had a 4th section 🤔 I read somewhere that a fetus develops its heartbeat at 8 weeks. I would guess I’m around 6 weeks as my last period was 24th May.

Despite everything, I’m pretty good at adapting. But what would you all advise?
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