Hi could I get a private post please? Sorry for the long post, not posting for m…

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Hi could I get a private post please? Sorry for the long post, not posting for myself but on behalf of my dad.

My Dad and his ex were together for 15 years, they broke up in 2015, when she called the police making accusations of domestic violence (my dad was arrested, charged, went to court and was proved innocent.. he had his four children with her as witnesses.) long story short, my Dad was found innocent, she tried to get a restraining order on him to get his house for longer, again he won his case and she was put into an emergency accommodation with their two youngest… My Dad pays child support for the youngest, as she’s only claiming for him, and he has the youngest daughter most of the week (he’s had her for 3weeks so far), as it’s the school holidays and my dad’s finished work for the holidays as well, he’s got his youngest son too. He asked my sister to send a message to her mum, asking if she could bring some pull-ups for him – he’s 6 and she hasn’t bothered potty training him, my dad tries to, but obviously doing it single-handled and him going back to his mum where she will just put a pull-up on him nothing’s gonna get done – but she replied back to my sister saying “no”.

As I said my dad pay’s child support, she receives the middle payment of DLA for him, and career’s money. The money never seems to be spent on the children, my dad has them most of the holidays, and whenever she decides she wants to go out on the weekend – she had cheated on my dad and that’s why she went violent on him.

Is my Dad wrong in expecting her to send up some pull-ups whenever she brings him to stay for the holiday? My dad doesn’t expect her to give money to him for food or drinks, but he doesn’t earn much, and he’s working full-time hours in a part-time job!

Please no bashing, just wanted people’s opinions.
Thanks.
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