Hi could I have a pp please? Sorry it’s long. I don’t normally bash my oh online…
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Hi could I have a pp please? Sorry it’s long.
I don’t normally bash my oh online but I really need to vent, it’s probably just me being stupid but it’s made me feel really shit about myself… since having my child I put quite a bit of weight on (going from a size 8 to a size 18 while pregnant) my oh plays an online game and he spends most the day and all night on it. I can’t remember the last time we actually got into bed together and had a cuddle! A couple of days ago he added one of his online friends to his phone (he told me this) when I seen her display picture as a half naked 27ish year old girl on this profile picture it made me feel like absolute shit because of the fact that we don’t cuddle, hardly ever spend any time together, and when hes on that game its like im sat there speaking to a brick wall! I’ve told him how I feel and it’s turned into an argument with him calling me stupid and saying I’m being pathetic hes deleting his online accounts saying If that’s the way it makes u feel Ill delete everything rar rar rar We’re only in our mid 20s but we’ve been through a right shit storm in the last 10 years of us being together and 2 be honest most people wouldn’t still be together after what we’ve been through, but the truth is he really hurt my feelings and it’s like I’m second best to his stupid game how can I resolve this without it causing another argument? Please don’t tell me to leave him and all that because we’ve delt with alot worse and it will get sorted out its just it will have to be me that makes up with him when actually I’ve done nothing wrong. I’m a very jealous insecure woman I know that and so does he but i just don’t understand why he would give her his number when he knows how shit I feel about myself!
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My partner plays on the comp maybe 2-3 nights a week for a few hours but firstly it’s when the kids r in bed and it never comes before our time if I asked him n9t to play so we cud watch a film or whatever that’s what would happen put ur foot down nothing wrong with him playing but in moderation maybe he cud go on it earlier so u can chill out before the night is over as for the girl whilst it’s not fair u taking your insecurities out on him I don’t see a reason for why he would have her in his phone he doesn’t even no her only to play online with so he should delete her plz don’t take this the wrong way but why don’t u try tackle your weight if it’s making u so down and insecure only u can make yourself feel better hun I’m not having a dig there if your happy with your body then good for you but it’s coming across that your not maybe join slimming world u may not be so insecure about things and yourself if u r happy with the way u r xx
You deserve to be treated like your feelings are important. He may not be a bad man, but this isn’t cool. This is worth a fight. So since he offered to erase his accounts, tell him, yes, darling, that would make me feel better. Call his bluff. He needs to be willing to compromise.
Gaming is stress relief for men. Not everyone’s the same size, some people can’t help their weight and won’t change a profile pic to keep everyone from being jealous or whatever.