Hi could I have a private post please. I have three children a girl aged 2 a boy…

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Hi could I have a private post please.
I have three children a girl aged 2 a boy aged 4 and a boy aged 10.
My 10 year old is from a previous relationship.( me and his dad split up when he was 6 weeks old) and I’m now married and have been with my husband for 5 years, my husband is absolutely amazing with my him and they have a really good relationship.
My 10 year has really bad behaviour problems and the school has said that they think there’s a good chance he has autism so he has been refered.
How do I deal with his behaviour in the mean time as I have been warned the diagnosis can take a very long time.
He physically attacks both my other children on a daily basis. Tells me he hates me constantly calls me awful names and gets violent and smashes up the house.
Nothing is ever good enough for him he is so Ungrateful and doesn’t appreciate anything.
He demands money constantly off me and if he doesn’t get his own way he will have meltdowns that can last hours.
I’ve lost 3 Jobs because of his behaviour as he’s so difficult for anyone else to care for,and the school have said they can’t cope with him lunch times so I have to pick him up for an hour and take him back but they have advised me not to bring him home as he might refuse to go back so I have to sit in a park or walk around town for an hour even in the pouring rain with a 2 year old,I am back and for the school constantly.
( I have been told that it’s illegal for the school to do this but I was told by the deputy head I either take him out or he will end up being excluded..so it’s up to me?)
Really sorry for the long post but really need advise thank you xxx
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