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Hi could i have a private post please? Might be a bit long..
I’m not sure what to do about my sister.. Iv recently got myself out of a violent relationship, luckily I managed to get out before it got really bad. Iv now moved back near my family only a few weeks ago and my sister has mentioned how her boyfriend gets violent. Iv seen it myself a few years ago but thought they had figured it all out. She’s told me that she can’t leave him, she’s terrified. They have 2 young kids and have been together about 6/7 years. I know there are people she can call and get help with everything but I know she won’t. She’s pretty much the opposite of me so I know she’s quite scared to be alone and is still very much in love with him whereas I’m quite independent which made it easier for me to do what I did but it won’t be as easy for her. Last night her boyfriend got quite drunk and was shouting at her, no physical violence but my sister got her kids out of bed and left knowing it could get to that point if she didn’t go. On her way out she took his keys so that he couldnt drive whilst drunk which is something he would definitely do. So this morning I have met her for breakfast and her boyfriend has gone mental on the phone asking for his keys back. I looked after the kids whilst she went to give the keys back and I called to make sure everything was ok, she hadn’t got there yet but she said ‘I just know he’s going to beat me’. 😢 I feel useless.. even though Iv been through and still going through similar (I have a child and pregnant so still sorting contact etc) I just don’t know how I can help her because she’s in a lot deeper than I was and it’s heartbreaking 😞 any advice?
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