Hi could I have a private post please
Hi all i think I’m looking
for some advice and maybe anybody who has been or are in the same situation. I have three children, my youngest being a baby and my other two older, basically me and my partner aren’t intimate in any way shape or form, my sex drive feels like it’s there but just needs to be woken 😂 my partner has always been understanding when it completely diminished and have no worries in him going off looking for sex elsewhere. Here’s the thing because of past times where my sex drive has layed dormant he just automatically thinks that’s what’s happening now, I’m starting to think he’s the one who drive has gone as he never instigates anything to even know if im up for it or not, he’s a man that just goes with the wind in life but sometimes he’s child like, I think most men are ha. really what I want him to be like is manly and take charge and give me a good seeing to 😂 but he just hasn’t got it in him I don’t think 🤔 any advice? We’ve talked before when we’ve been in this situation but nothing really improves unless we have a rare night on the tiles and the sex is easier to happen and easier to lose inherbitions. This hasn’t happened in a long time as he just never takes me anywhere where it’s just us 😔 I’m starting to wonder if there’s anything between us anymore or if im even physically attracted to him? I have fantasies but it’s hardly about us. Sorry for the long post it’s difficult to type out feelings.