Hi, could I have a private post please Hi all. I’ve two children, with different…

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Hi, could I have a private post please
Hi all. I’ve two children, with different biological fathers, but one real DAD (you know what I mean). I can’t do anything at the moment, as their Dad is inside following a terrible car accident (oncoming car lost control, swerved in to his road and hit him). Point is, if anything happens to me, I want both of my kids to go to their Dad, provided I can keep safe until he comes home. Reason being, the relationship with eldest’s father, who is sadly on the birth certificate, as he bullied me in to it. Since we split, he has chosen not to bother with our son, and has been telling people he’s not on the birth certificate (which, come on, he MUST know he is; I remember singing it, and I have a terrible memory!) And just makes excuses all the time about not seeing him. He’s too lazy to work, and he’s now moved to a really rough place, to live with his new girlfriend and her baby (who isn’t his), and he’s decided to play Daddy to him, and continues to ignore his own child. He now has open contact with me, and Father’s day passed, no word, his birthday passed, no word, our son ended up in hospital, no word. He says he can’t be bothered, because he’s not really got a bond with him, and it would be too difficult to start now. He has people who would pick our son up and drop him off for him, so he wouldn’t need to move off his rear end. He’s just said, “If he wants to come and find me when he’s older, he can.” Yet from prison, the other Dad, who has been in his life since he was one, and he was just 2 when we got together, managed to see them both on Father’s Day, sees them regularly through visits, and got a message to me through his cellmate’s mother to see how the eldest was when he was in hospital. He has been there for him, been up with him in the night, had him whilst I’ve been in work, been there for his birthday parties, picked him up from school, taken him for days out, all of the real Dad stuff. I just don’t want the boys to be split up, because they are so close, and I would rather they were with someone who actually wants them, as their Dad does. I would also want them to still see the other family, as the rest of the family has always been fantastic, and supportive, and helped out, and they’re brilliant with both of the children. How can I make it legally binding that both go to their Dad, should anything happen to me? Thank you x x
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