Hi could you post anonymously for me please.
Am I right to feel annoyed and upset?
I found out I was pregnant on Friday. Due to pain my hcg bloods were done Monday they was at 109. I had to go for repeat bloods today, they was 113 but doctor said they should of doubled. They scanned me both external and internal but as they are thinking im around 4 weeks they couldn’t see anything yet just the thickening of my lining which they said is signs of Early pregnancy.
Doctor took me in a room and said my bloods have lowered and she thinks I’m losing baby or lost it….I haven’t bled BTW just pains. They are calling it an pregnancy with unknown location and asked me to go back for bloods Friday. My husband set off back from hospital but didn’t come back to mine. Doctor told me to rest and im so tired and I asked him to watch the kids for me while I rested. He said no hes gone back to his now to put his footy bet on, get something to eat then going to watch the final. I feel annoyed and angry and dont know whether I should be. I know he’s going through it too but wouldn’t it be better if we was supporting each other. I feel alone even though people are around me. I feel confused because I’ve not passed anything so surely I havent lost the baby. Why isn’t he with me? Do I just leave him to it?