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Hi could you post this for me please? Just after other peoples opinions on the …

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Hi could you post this for me please? Just after other peoples opinions on the matter so please bare with me.
Now i split from my son’s dad last year and since then he has tried his best to persuade me to give it another go with him (we were together 8 years but there was no chance of a relationship again) he was still trying to win me back even though around March this year he got himself a new girlfriend. He still said he wanted to be with me and was only with her and now living with her because his mate kicked him out so had nowhere else to go (she’s still with him even after knowing why he was arrested and questioned by police recently for a sexual offence against a minor which he has admitted to in a statement to police).
Now before I found out about his girlfriend (which was around the end of june) there were quite a few sexual acts between us. No feelings involved on my part and I know it was stupid but i only did it to keep the peace when it came to our son otherwise he wouldn’t have seen him at all. There has been no contact between us since the police were called 4 weeks ago but up until then he was sending me explicit messages, pictures etc and telling me how much he still loved me and how he wants us to be together again, that he doesn’t get sex from his gf and when he’s tried it’s crap and the fact he was only using his gf as a place to stay basically because nobody else wants him. I had told him numerous times before there was no chance of us being in a relationship again as he was too controlling and manipulative. I still have all the messages and pictures he has sent from before and after I found out about his girlfriend. Now my question is, would you tell his girlfriend and show her everything or just keep out of it? I know I would probably just come across as the spiteful crazy ex by trying to tell her he’s just using her and has actually cheated on her of which I have proof in black and white. I know she can make her own decisions and its none of my buisness of sge stays with him or not as shes an adult but I know for a fact i wouldn’t like to be in a relationship with someone especially living with them and be completely unaware its only for the other persons convenience. If you were in my position what would you do? Thanks
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