Hi I really don’t know how much more I can take, sorry long post but I need to g…

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Hi I really don’t know how much more I can take, sorry long post but I need to get this out…

I’m fed up of having arguments with my husband over the tidying up, he goes out and works and I don’t normally moan until he moans about our home but I try my best, I get up every morning, get our 3 kids breakfast, help get them washed and dressed, get them to the teeth, do hairs, get t there shoes on and out the door by half 8 on a school day to get my oldest (7) to school for 9am I do pretty well considering I stuggle with my middle child (4) as when she doesn’t want to do something she kicks and screams me and really hurts me but I just get on with it, I come home from the first school run, do the washing up, tidy the living room and Hoover, put washing on/ hang up and fold up dry and put washing away, I try and do the general jobs a mum is supposed to do, I try to as much as I can in the morning, come 11 o’clock I do my (2) and (4) lunch so they can eat before school, make sure the school stuff is ready with nappies etc for my (2) year old, do more tiding up if needed, get them ready for school, read books and out the door for 12 to get them to school for 12:30, I come home and carry on tidying up if I didn’t finish, 2 times a week I try and make sure I iron my husbands shirts (as he works in a suit shop and has to wear suits) hoover up, pick them up at 3:30, try and spend time with them once they home, do there dinner 5:30 – 6, wash up again after, get there clothes ready for the next day, give them a bath if its bath every 2-3 days depending on how dirty they are, get them ready for bed, get them to there teeth, tuck them into bed for 8.00, put on mine and hubbys dinner, have my dinner with hubby, wash up again and tidy up kitchen again and today the hubby has the cheek to turn round and say what do I do alday while he goes out to work as the last two days I haven’t been home, I hardly sit down and when I do try and have a little bit of time with him he ends up moaning at me! I don’t expect him to help at all cos he goes out and work but he is always moaning cos I haven’t had time to do something!! And he keeps bringing up u don’t know what work is u have never worked in ur life no I haven’t but I become a mum at age of 18 and he says u go out and work I will do the tidying up and the school runs I will do a better job at it than u!! It really gets me down cos I stuggle on my own but get on with it I also suffer with postnal depression!! I just can’t seem to do anything right!!
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