Hi I’m wondering if I could have some advice. I don’t know where to turn to. I h…

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Hi I’m wondering if I could have some advice. I don’t know where to turn to. I have a little girl who is almost 4 weeks old and since having her I’ve had sepsis, a womb infection and a flare up of lupus in my joints where I can’t move them and struggle picking up my daughter to give her a bottle. My partner went back to work on Monday and feels it’s his right not to get up in the night with her as “I’m her mother and he works all day while you get to sleep”. Even though He leaves the house a tip every night so I can’t sleep as I need to tidy up and unpack since we’ve just moved house. He wasn’t to great before returning to work but now it’s causing arguments. I feel so low all the time not helped by the fact I feel useless for not being able to look after my little girl properly. I told him I couldn’t wait to go back to work I was that depressed at home. He replied im a walking needle who’s always ill and im that mentally unstable he doubts I’ll ever go back to work and if it wasn’t for him I wouldn’t be able to afford the roof over my head. I replied if I’m that unstable why does he let me look after a baby alone. He told me it’s my job I’m her mother and if I’m that ill I should have thought about that before having a baby and because she is crying he’s gone to sleep on the couch leaving me to try and comfort her. I don’t know what to do anymore. Please any advice would be much appreciated
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