Hi please can you post anonymously . Hi all just need a bit of reassurance I gu…

[ad_1]
Hi please can you post anonymously .

Hi all just need a bit of reassurance I guess . So I’m been with my partner 2 years , he was really not my usual type as in looks and it was a very slow burner to start but i love him for so much more now . My ex was a complete Pratt mistreated me , would go out for whole weekends , let’s just say a very destructive relationship .
Anyways I know this sounds so nasty but with my current partner I get a little bored and not as lustful and excited as I have been in past relationships . He is fantastic with me and my children , never goes out , texts me beautiful messages, tells me I’m beautiful everyday . I tell everyone he is exactly what I need for the rest of my life . But I can’t help to feel bored sometimes.. I had a catch-up with some old uni mates on the weekend and they met him first time , they said I will get bored of him and it won’t last and others said I’m just settling because I’m so different to him . I know he is the complete opposite to me as I’m very outgoing but I feel safe. Now I’m doubting our relationship thinking am I just settling because I know it’s safe compared to the complete arsehole I had before, if I’m bored now what will I be like in 10 years time . I’m willing to try and make us more exciting and spontaneous and lustful but it’s hard when he is so soppy and just has me to lead majority of the time .

Any thoughts much appreciated
Thanks
[ad_2]

Source