Hi sorry can i have another private post please?. Ok so im pregnant snd havent t…
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Hi sorry can i have another private post please?. Ok so im pregnant snd havent told my bf yet but want opinions on a worry i have. I know his mum will want to be really involved which is great, shes amazing to my little girl who isnt related. My problem is, she is bipolar and she can be VERY nasty. Im talking violent n everything. She will get into an argument with my bf and will become a diff person and will say or do anything to hurt him. Even slagged me off once to hurt him. Ive heard some horrific stories about her violence from him. The thought of her potentially wanting to have the baby over night etc is making me so worried. My bf says shes great with kids and would never be like that but how does that work if shes so nasty to her own son. Please any advice appreciated. Xx
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If you aren’t comfortable with her watching your child over night simply say no. To young. If your breastfeeding baby can’t be away from you for long anyway. Say your happy for her to visit when she likes but as for overnight that will have to be when the child is older if your comfortable.. remember your mum not her she’s nan/gran.. if your partner isn’t happy with your choice simply say you’ve witnessed how she is with you you aren’t having your child around that:)
Talk to you partner, I’ve not long come out of a marriage for this reason, it’s an extremely hard thing to live with. I would deffo say if there is a cycle to those behaviors for your piece of mind you don’t allow baby there during these times xx
Firstly my darling tell your bf the brilliant news, you have nine months to talk things and plan things. I know this might seem like a big issue but please try and stay calm, if your worried about it just politely say somthimg to your partner about it. Also congratulations xx
You need to tell your partner n discuss it with him , does she take medication? Does she regularly see a psychiatrist? If not tell your partner you arent comfortable leaving your baby with someone who does not try to be healthy
I have bipolar and I work very hard to keep it controlled some ppl just can’t accept that they are mentally ill good luck
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