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Hi ya can you please do a private post, So I have a monster-in-law she’s been…

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Hi ya 😊 can you please do a private post,

So I have a monster-in-law she’s been nothing but nasty to me for years I’ve been with her son for 13 years we have 4 children.
None of his family have bothered with the kids since the beginning of the year, they have messaged and posted cards for there birthdays but haven’t been interested in seeing them because they hate me some much 😔 we used to be close with them although she’s would always dig me out or have nasty comments but I never bit because it was his mum then last year she sent a spiteful message to her son slating me and for the first time since I’ve been with him he stuck up for me against her. So she hates me more 😥 my husband says it’s because we don’t need them or rely on them for anything like his siblings do.

Well 2 weeks ago his mother messaged to say she wants to see the kids before Christmas she has some money she wants to make sure they get it, then proceeded to slate me 🤷🏻‍♀️ rather than just stick to saying I’d like to see the kids 😳

Then last week it was our youngest child’s birthday, he doesn’t actually know her because he’s only 3 and the family haven’t been bothered about actually seeing the kids, but the spiteful woman didn’t even wish him a happy birthday!
Not a thing. I don’t can’t about a card or money but not even a happy birthday. I’m so angry 😡 it’s a good job he doesn’t understand but my older ones would have noticed.

Now what do I do? Continue to bite my tough and ignore the evil woman?
She’s turned the whole family against me too telling them we won’t let them see the kids, even though she used to come and visit, I just won’t go to hers because she’s evil but she’s never been stopped from coming to ours and he told her to come and see them if she wants.

Sorry I know it’s long winded, I’m just trying to fit it all in 😳

Thank in advance x
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