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Hiya. Cam I have a ppp. I’m 26 and i have just found out that my late father who…

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Hiya. Cam I have a ppp. I’m 26 and i have just found out that my late father who has been in my life for 25 years who passed suddenly at the age of 47 on 1st January 2016, could possible not be my dad. Now I have a 5 year old and im currently 23 weeks pregnant… this has caused me huge stress and worry.

I have been brought up with my older brother that is 28 (he has a different dad ) which we have known about for many many years, then I have a sister who was born in 1993, a brother who was born in 1996. And myself in 1991.

Now the doubts are coming…

From what I know. My mum had my brother in 1989 with a different partner. Then she met my dad in sometime around may 1991 and then they got married on 26th July 1991 and in her marriage photos shes pregnant which she claims was me and that’s all ive known for 25 years. Now I was born in first week september 1991, .. So if she met my dad who ive known for 25 years whos passed away last year in may time 1991 and then they got married 26ty july 1991 and she had me first week in september and i was over due by a week. This means hes not my dad correct…???

I dont want to other think things but I really am struggling… I’ve spoken to my mum before and shes said to me. What you on about of course he is. But now im doubting, my partner said it doesn’t add up. I’ve spoken to my younger sister tonight and she said it doesn’t add up. I’m really sorry for the long post but im so upset, not sure what to do…

Now obviously because my dad has passed away on 1st Jan 2016 there is no way I can ask him… So im assuming the only way I can find out is by doing a blood test between myself and my sister? Is this correct?.

I dont want to go on jemery kyle if thats what you suggest… this is very close to my heart and being 23 weeks pregnant too its killing me deep down. Can anyone tell me where I can find more info out about finding out…

Many thanks xxx
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