How can I persuade my reluctant partner to have a Vasectomy? My various health …
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How can I persuade my reluctant partner to have a Vasectomy?
My various health professionals have advised us that me having any further pregnancies will put my long term health at risk. I’m on anti coagulant medication for large blood clots, which were found in lungs and near heart. Due to this I’m advised not to take oral contraceptives and being sterilized would involve further operation/risk of blood loss etc. I don’t feel I want to have anything else done with my body, been through enough. Had to have emergency caeserian start of year due to them finding my blood clots in both lungs. I was told I had a high risk of losing my life at one point. I don’t even trust condoms now… we have got two lovely children under 3 already and we are both in our 40’s.
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Can’t force him to have the snip. You can talk to him and tell him how you feel and that you feel its unfair ect, but ultimately its his body and if he doesn’t want it doing you can’t make him. If a man was trying to force a woman to be sterilized the comments would be completely different. Not really fair.
I maybe one on my own here, but would never push my husband to have the snip.. only because if anything was to happen to me I would want him to move on and maybe remarry and children could follow. X
My hubby had to have it done twice!!😂 Didn’t work the 1st time, he definitely had very strong swimmers!
P.S don’t tell your partner my story or you’ll never persuade him to get it done LOL x
Probably going to get bashed for this but at the end of the day it is his body and his choice. You say you can’t take oral contraception there are many other forms of contraception available I would look at them before trying to force your partner into doing something he clearly doesn’t want to do
He should want to do it for your health, seems a little selfish that he won’t. This isn’t just you saying you don’t want to be pregnant again; this is matter of your life.
Ultimately its his choice because its his body and you cant force him to do it. Dunno what advice anyone can give you, i think its just something that you both have to talk about
Only have sex with condoms. He’ll either get sick of it or he won’t. Either way, your pretty much protected.
Tell him to get the snip or you will do it with breeze blocks! He should do it without hesitation especially with your circumstances
If knowing that a pregnancy could make your life at risk doesn’t make him do it, I don’t know what will.
Tell him get a snip or no sex at all x
Or you could get your tubes tied?