I know the mum is struggling and have put my hand out to help so many times, off…

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I know the mum is struggling and have put my hand out to help so many times, offering to make her the same reward charts I use etc so we are all on the same page, every time I offer help it gets thrown back in my face and I’m called names. So I don’t offer anymore.

My partner tries to talk to her and he again gets called every name under the sun.

My partner doesn’t live me as he stays at his nans during the week so he is closer to work, but the kids cannot stay there as there is no where for them to sleep. We wouldn’t send them back if we had room to have them, they stay on air beds when they are here as I only have a 2 bedroom house. So it’s not fair to keep them if they have no where proper to sleep. Again I have offered to have them more to help her but i just get told to stop ‘trying to play mother to them’

Also I defiantly am not stuck up and don’t think my kids are angels at all, my son of 5 has Autism but we have a huge amount of structures and routines to deal with him.

I was brought up with my dad and mum arguing through courts and it was horrible, I wouldn’t want to put another child through that unless it was 100% necessary, hence why I was asking if there was any other option before going to that stage.
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