I’m looking for advice, no rude comments please as I’m so so stuck on what to do…
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I’m looking for advice, no rude comments please as I’m so so stuck on what to do. I have a 3 month old boy and I live in a town with no family nor friends as I moved here to be with my partners family so he could be ‘okay’ with my pregnancy. I spent my whole pregnancy at home alone basically, he went out drinking all the time and he is so very mentally abusive towards me where I broke down uncountable times a week because of how shit he made me feel.
Lately he has made me feel even worse, making me out to be a shit mother and I have postnatal depression and he blames my break downs because of that but it’s really because of him and his abusive words towards me. He took a day off work today to help me with our son and so I could get some housework done and didn’t help really at all and whenever I asked he would say no I should do it, I never get a break and he just sits on his ass whenever he is home. He keeps telling me no one is making me stay and I should just leave and I get called a cunt basically every 5 minutes. I love him but am I ruining my sons future by staying with him?😞
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Read this back to yourself and ask yourself what you would say to someone else writing this. Get the hell out of there girl he doesn’t bloody deserve you or your baby xx
Why would u even stay? Yes u will ruin your son’s future and if u do stay when your son is old enough he will think it’s ok to treat a woman that way vicious circle get out get home to tour family and apply for maintenance for u child he sound like the c**t to me!
Kids deserve to be brought up in a happy environment. You need to get out for you and your baby’s sake. You’ll be a much stronger person without the mental abuse. Please make sure you’re getting enough professional support with your depression too. I sympathise x
Why would you even consider staying in an abusive relationship when you have a child? Domestic abuse affects children emotionally so please get out before your son is harmed x
I’d be hot footing it out of there…. Do you want your son to grow up thinking this is acceptable behaviour & how women are meant to be treated?!
Oh god just get out with ur son and leave him too it!
Get the hell out and move back to your family it’s ok until you have a mental breakdown. It’s not an environment I’d want my family in . As forest grump said Run
How can u live a man who does this to you ?
Seen this happen to many times…get out now…..
The fact you’ve just written what you have tells you everything you’re asking. Know your worth xxx