I’m not sure if this is the right way to go about this but I need advice. A long…

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I’m not sure if this is the right way to go about this but I need advice. A long private anonymous post please.

I have a 2 year old to my long term ex partner. He sees her, takes her out and pays maintenance. This situation is fine on that part. We get on well and we still talk when I see him.

I have a partner of two years. He is brilliant with my daughter and they have an incredibly close bond which I love. He’s very different with me though.

We haven’t had sex in a while now, whenever I mention it he throws me off the scent so to speak. I’m not the most confident with my body but I wouldn’t say I’m awful. There isn’t much affection. No cuddling in bed and we just give each other a kiss when either one is leaving the house.

He’s so patronising with my daughter. Everything I do is wrong. Don’t do this and don’t do that. You should be doing the washing and cooking. The house isn’t clean enough. Come onnnnn your two year old isn’t that hard she’s fine with me when I come home. You should be more like a mother. All she hears is ‘no’ from your mouth.

I’m barely invited out with him, although I’ve met his family and not many people do. He says he wouldn’t stick around if he didn’t want to be here.

We don’t talk things through because everything I talk about is an argument in his head. I love him, but I’ve had enough now.

Advice please?
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